Ok. Hi i'm new to this forum. and i need help. i bought a hid kit for my 1997 4runner and it is a high to low conversion kit. and whe i turn on my head lights the h.i.d's work then i hit my high beams and the h.i.d's shut off. then obviously when i turn off the high beams they turn back on. but i want them to stay on when i hit my high beams. I was told i can wire up a relay to the kit and it's very simple but don't know how???? PLEASE HELP.

Yes you can add a relay to fix that. However, with a wiring diagram or access to the truck to get my meter at it, I can't do anything but guess. A custom radio/sound shop might be able to do it.